
“I
have been working with SEWA since eight years. I got married
at a very young age. If the rains were good, my husband
was able to work as an agricultural labor. But most of the
time he spent in cursing me for not giving birth to a boy.
I have two daughters. In my community it is a matter of
great pride and relief if one has a son. Pride, because
a son continues the family line and relief because he takes
care of the family and also because he takes care of the
parents in their your old age.
Five
years ago my husband fell ill that he was bed ridden.
In this condition I couldn’t leave him and go
to work in the fields as an agricultural laborer. At
this time my knowledge of embroidery came in handy.
Today I am able to earn about Rs.1500 per month. I am
also undertaking training to improve the quality of
my work. I always worried about who would take care
of me when I grow old. But now it looks like crafts
is a substitute son in my life. It helps me earn a sustainable
livelihood while letting me stay at home to care of
my husband.”